Valentine's and Galentine's party invitations

Open with a playful line about friendship, then give the date, time, place and how to reply. Say what you are doing, such as brunch, cocktails or crafts, and what to wear or bring. A line like “Leave your Valentine at home, bring your best friend” sets the mood and makes clear who is invited.

Galentine’s Day is February 13, the day before Valentine’s Day. It comes from a 2010 episode of the television comedy Parks and Recreation and has since become a popular day for friends to celebrate each other. Many groups simply hold it on the closest open weekend, so put your exact date on the invitation.

Say it outright so nobody wonders: “Couples, friends, and happily single people all welcome.” Choose an activity that works without a partner, like a dessert bar, karaoke or a dance floor. Avoid couple-only games. Address each invitation to the person, and say whether they may bring someone along when they reply.

Two to three weeks ahead suits a party at home, which gives people time to arrange sitters and outfits. If you plan to go out, book your table a month or more early, because many restaurants fill up weeks before, and then send the invitation as soon as the reservation is confirmed.